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What Do You Keep, and What Do You Leave Behind?

                                  By Kent Terry, synod hunger appeal secretary

I looked long and hard at the dusty ceramic picture of the Last Supper in my parent's attic. I had found this at a general store in Texas on one of my vacation trips there and brought it back as a gift for my mom. I traveled a ot and my parent's house was full of such items like a water pitcher from Canada, flowerpots from Mexico and pictures of western mountains. Now, after my mother's death and the upcoming sale of our family home, I sadly was getting all these things back. AI had to admit that the once striking picture now looked like one of those White Elephant gifts you pass on to your brother-in-law at Christmas. It was chipped on the corners and the gold paint had lost its luster, but it brought back lots of memories. I n fact, that was the problem; everything I looked at in the house brought back memories and I knew that what I left in the house was essentially gone forever. If we had a barn or storage shed the situation might have been different, but my wife and I joke that in our house, if you bring in a cereal box, you take out a cereal box. the garage was already full of several boxes of items that I just couldn't bring myself to discard. What do you keep and what do you leave behind.

I guess my dilemma is an allegory for life as well. Our lives are full of memories and we are shaped by those memories that we keep and those we are willing to leave behind. Some close friends recently celebrated their 50th. wedding anniversary and I thought how couples in a successful marriage have to do this. There are lots of hurts that can be gathered over the years, but these are best left behind and the memories of joyful times as a couple and family drive the relationship. Conversely, we all know people for whom sad or unfair events from the past dominate their thoughts and they can never seem to get past these issues. Our lives are shaped by what we keep and what we are willing to leave behind.

What did Jesus say about this? His words to Simon Peter and Andrew by the Sea of Galilee were, "Come, follow me," and these men left everything behind; boats, homes and even their families to become Jesus' first disciples. We may not need to leave absolutely everything behind, but clearly what we keep and what we leave should be guided by our faith. Perhaps the key question is not so much, 'What Would Jesus Do,' but rather 'What Would Jesus Keep?'

So, I ended up keeping the picture, but my brother-in-law had best look out for a package at Christmas that seems heavy.

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